How to get over narcissist ex boyfriend ?

We can't diagnose over the Internet based on a second hand account. This question would be better answered in another category, "singles and dating".

How does he feel about me? Girls for opinions and boys for what to do!?

I've been out with this boy called tom about 4/5 times now in the past 2 years. This is the type of boy that you never stop having feelings for, no matter what he's done. The first time was ages ago and went really well but we argued and soon broke up. The second time was the next year and we got on so well and had a really excellent relationship. Thing is, i always found him flirting with this girl and some other girls to. Now, i don't know whether he just did it out of the blue or he actually had feelings for her. They had lessons together and we quite good friends. It got to christmas and we had an argument then made up but here's where things just got weird. He broke up with me without me even knowing. He changed his relationship status on Facebook and let me find out the hard way. A few weeks later we made up. Now it gets to about May/June and one of my friends has this party. We talked about it all, how we both still had feelings for each other and we'd never stop liking each other. He told me that he would love to be with me again, just he couldn't as he didnt want to have to hurt me again. I dont understand him at all and need to know where i stand. Even now, we are still really flirtatious and still have silly arguments where we joke with eachother. He still flirts with other girls but occasionally we catch each other looking at each other.. so help! Boys.. where do i stand? Girls, what would you do?!!?

Should I break it off?

Long distance never works and you'll be busy in college and meeting new people. Hanging on to this relationship just doesn't make sense.

Why am i not getting a call back from Vector Marketing? A rumored scam / rip off job opportunity?

I have completed 17 years of education consisting of an MBA program and a Bachelors in cost acvounting. I still dont have much work experience but, the job i applied for today was for a company named Vector Marketing affiliated with Cutco. I had gone through every interview process along with high school and college students for a summer job opening. The main representative there had all called every individual in seperately and spoke to them. She told me that she will review with the management and I should receive a email If i get the job , By tonight. I have still not received a mail regarding it. Did I get rejected from a company that is known to recruit almost every candidate that applies? and why? i needed the job, I couldve made something out of it. I had much more professionalism than most if not all the other candidates who were still in the process of completing the their academics. I also did more research of the company ahead of time. Im more concerned about still getting the job if I dont recieve the mail soon

What's the best way to deal with a mother that overreacts about EVERYTHING?

There could be many reasons for her outbursts and anger. Even though she may be dealing with her underlying issues in the wrong way, she may be going through menopause which can be horrible for some women as it really affects our hormone system. She also may be having issues with the man in her life. Aging also brings on mental issues and/or she may be in depression. You are getting older and will be leaving home soon. As a Mother, it is very difficult to go through the " Empty Nest " syndrome. Do something very different and ask her out for coffee, or to a juice stand or even for a walk in the park. Then lightly bring up how you feel being a young woman and that you have been worried about her lately. Try to get her to open up her feelings -YES-let her talk about herself. You never know-but life pulls hard punches and we never know when we may lose someone we love. Take it easy with her and let her know you love her very much !

I have a tremendous amount of hostility toward my mother because of my father's abuse?

We really can't know what's going on in anyone else's mind. Yeah, she should have protected you, but did you ever think that maybe she, too, felt trapped and afraid to say anything? It sounds like she's still got a lot of internal problems with this, and that's her burden, but you should definitely seek counseling. Just remember, we can't change the past, we can only learn from it. You'll never be able to convince your mom to "go back" and do things differently. But you can work out your own outlook for the future, and have a much better life without being all clogged up with this poison.

Verbally abusive girlfriend?

Every conversation we have she always ends up turning things and ends up going off on me. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells. This really hurts me. How do I get across?