Sunday, July 17, 2011

Do most guys do this?

And why do you think he is doing this? He seems pretty reserved and possibly shy...but definitely not flirtatious. He's also friendly and what not. He gave me his number and I texted him. He texted back with a hey. I asked when does he get out of class and he never wrote back. The next day he text's me and I reply. I reply back and then so does he but I say nothing back. Then, a few hrs later he replies with a hey. I reply back and now he is ignoring me. wtf is up with this?

I hate my boyfriends mother!?

My boyfriend and I have been going out for over a year, I love him but I hate his parents! His mum is soo highly strung and SUCH a drama queen and my boyfriend and his dad indulge her in every freak out she has! She got a call from the doctor to say she needed some blood tests, perfectly routine, and she rang my boyf in tears about it and he had to go see her, and he and his dad had to take her shopping to cheer her up about it. He's an only child, still lives at home at 22, and doesn't see anything wrong with the way she is. Shes extremely over protective, wont let me stay over at their house and wont allow him and me to be alone in the same room (although he stays at mine, she thinks he sleeps on the sofa). He won't move out of their house because they are such a co-dependant little trio and he cant imagine leaving them. I love spending time with him when its just us, but am I wasting my time? Im a very laid back person and cant stand all the drama, should I end it? coz he is always going to run to her whenever she freaks out about any little thing. every time i go round to their house i have to tread on eggshells so that i don't upset her. me and my boyf argue about it a lot, is his relationship with his mother meaning our relationship is doomed? or should i just get on with it?

Aded my question in the more details. okay my question is this a scam or a girl that just want's to friends.?

I logged into my hotmail and there where to emails in my junk mail. One is to me and other people which i got that day. I opend it and said something and gave me another email to add to my messenger contacts. I did that.. so it's a girl that wants to give me a free link to her webcam chat. It's free but she said i will have to enter my cc just to prove i am older than 18 and i don't have a cc. earlier before she said that.. she said that she is moving in town with me and asks if im single and the town i am in. I tell her that then she says that she I want you to show her around and get a new GOOD JOB? I said okay i will and then she says about the free link and getting of the im to having to get back to her webcam work. So I look at my emails again and i found another Re one but it was from her from two days before today. It was only to me, no one else. Now i opend it and sent her a invite and she asks if would help her and stuff but this is 3 days later from the first time im messenger her. she told me befor she will be in my town in a week then 3 days. which it has been.. so she tells me to enter the cc in and she wants me to message her as soon as i get in the site with her. She tells me she wnats to webcam chat before she meets me and she is a webcam model. Does anybody know what this?

Is beezid a scam? How so?

Ok, I just won an auction in beezid (cherry auction) and I am shaking. is this true??? it says I saved myself 95%, but I don't really believe in that, can someone either break my spirit or make me jump up and down in excitement?

Restraining order on girlfriend or her parents... help!?

My 16 yr old son has this girlfriend that I do not approve of. Only because she is disrespectful to me and my family and she has parents that are... lets just say they have pretty liberal parenting styles. She gets whatever she wants. I am trying to discipline my son for having bad grades and ground him, but I found out that her mother is driving her to his school (they go to different schools) and spending time with him at lunch (her school is over), and she just helps her daughter find time to spend with him. How can I discipline my son if another parent doesn't respect my wishes? Can I get a restraining order against them (not that I want to go that far, but talking to them doesn't help). She feels that I am too hard on my son and that her daughter should get her way. Do I just make him stick to me like glue, he can't get off groundation cause he keeps screwing up and finding ways to get into trouble. Now I am nothing but a meanie, cause I am on his case, but I don't want to give up on him. He is a good kid in general (when he isn't with her, he has a good attitude and is happy, when he is with her, he walks on eggshells). Help!

(GUYS) Help please!!!?

If you're tired of waiting or just don't want to, I'd go all out on him and plainly say you have a crush or like him or love him and maybe if it doesn't work out between them, you'll be there for him. Hope it works out =) If not, it's just not meant to be.

Is rapidmodz.com a legit website? or is it just a scam?

I wanna get a modded controller for my birthday and rapidmodz.com was the first site to show up when i searched modded controllers. is it real or is it just a scam?

How to get over narcissist ex boyfriend ?

We can't diagnose over the Internet based on a second hand account. This question would be better answered in another category, "singles and dating".

How does he feel about me? Girls for opinions and boys for what to do!?

I've been out with this boy called tom about 4/5 times now in the past 2 years. This is the type of boy that you never stop having feelings for, no matter what he's done. The first time was ages ago and went really well but we argued and soon broke up. The second time was the next year and we got on so well and had a really excellent relationship. Thing is, i always found him flirting with this girl and some other girls to. Now, i don't know whether he just did it out of the blue or he actually had feelings for her. They had lessons together and we quite good friends. It got to christmas and we had an argument then made up but here's where things just got weird. He broke up with me without me even knowing. He changed his relationship status on Facebook and let me find out the hard way. A few weeks later we made up. Now it gets to about May/June and one of my friends has this party. We talked about it all, how we both still had feelings for each other and we'd never stop liking each other. He told me that he would love to be with me again, just he couldn't as he didnt want to have to hurt me again. I dont understand him at all and need to know where i stand. Even now, we are still really flirtatious and still have silly arguments where we joke with eachother. He still flirts with other girls but occasionally we catch each other looking at each other.. so help! Boys.. where do i stand? Girls, what would you do?!!?

Should I break it off?

Long distance never works and you'll be busy in college and meeting new people. Hanging on to this relationship just doesn't make sense.

Why am i not getting a call back from Vector Marketing? A rumored scam / rip off job opportunity?

I have completed 17 years of education consisting of an MBA program and a Bachelors in cost acvounting. I still dont have much work experience but, the job i applied for today was for a company named Vector Marketing affiliated with Cutco. I had gone through every interview process along with high school and college students for a summer job opening. The main representative there had all called every individual in seperately and spoke to them. She told me that she will review with the management and I should receive a email If i get the job , By tonight. I have still not received a mail regarding it. Did I get rejected from a company that is known to recruit almost every candidate that applies? and why? i needed the job, I couldve made something out of it. I had much more professionalism than most if not all the other candidates who were still in the process of completing the their academics. I also did more research of the company ahead of time. Im more concerned about still getting the job if I dont recieve the mail soon

What's the best way to deal with a mother that overreacts about EVERYTHING?

There could be many reasons for her outbursts and anger. Even though she may be dealing with her underlying issues in the wrong way, she may be going through menopause which can be horrible for some women as it really affects our hormone system. She also may be having issues with the man in her life. Aging also brings on mental issues and/or she may be in depression. You are getting older and will be leaving home soon. As a Mother, it is very difficult to go through the " Empty Nest " syndrome. Do something very different and ask her out for coffee, or to a juice stand or even for a walk in the park. Then lightly bring up how you feel being a young woman and that you have been worried about her lately. Try to get her to open up her feelings -YES-let her talk about herself. You never know-but life pulls hard punches and we never know when we may lose someone we love. Take it easy with her and let her know you love her very much !

I have a tremendous amount of hostility toward my mother because of my father's abuse?

We really can't know what's going on in anyone else's mind. Yeah, she should have protected you, but did you ever think that maybe she, too, felt trapped and afraid to say anything? It sounds like she's still got a lot of internal problems with this, and that's her burden, but you should definitely seek counseling. Just remember, we can't change the past, we can only learn from it. You'll never be able to convince your mom to "go back" and do things differently. But you can work out your own outlook for the future, and have a much better life without being all clogged up with this poison.

Verbally abusive girlfriend?

Every conversation we have she always ends up turning things and ends up going off on me. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells. This really hurts me. How do I get across?

Walking on eggshells around boyfriend?

I'm sorry sweetheart, i know how you feel :/ i'd leave him and tell someone close to you whats going on so they can help you.

Hey woman, name ONE thing you offer other than sex?

Well first of all, it seems *someone*, no names mentioned is a bit jaded. But one thing I offer is support. In addition, I am also very loyal with a man I respect and like. If the women you are seeing are bleeding you dry of your money, you are seeing the wrong women.

BIH Studios ( Breaking into hollywood) is it a scam?

I Live in Las Vegas, Nevada and i went to this place called BIH studios and i was wondering if anyone has ever joined them or have deal-ed with them, are they a scam. Do you have any references i can look at or search from people that actually became sucsessfull at acting with BIH studios help .

College,s,in austrilia?

ok i have a friend that's in a college in Australia she is at fbi fashion college she is under a 2 year scholarship that this college payed her for she tells me that it cost 1500.00 to break the scholarship she all so tells me that she cant go anywhere or lieve this college they wont let her go nowhere unless she signs papers because she changed her last name i need to know if this is true or this is a scam ,please help.

How can I help my friend/crush who is extremely flirtatious (10 points)?

I think she just maybe likes the attention. If she is quite a young girl then this may be even more the case.

Do guys prefer tomboyish girls or Girly girls?

Do guys like girls who can make you laugh and they act in a playful crazy way? Or do thy like girls who are Girly and flirtatious?

What can I do to make my mom allow me to live my own life?

I'm an only child and my life has been miserable. I am thankful for my mom. She do a lot of things that other moms won't do. Here is my problem, my mom want me to be up under her all the time. Its like if she doesn't have my whole attention she gets jealous and she become verbally abusive to me. She always acted this way when my cousin comes around. We are the same age and of course we have a lot in common. I have kids, they have right to be around their grandmother but, sometimes I wish I didn't have kids and I would have moved so far away from my mom. Maybe out of the country. I'm also getting married soon and I know my mom is going to make me choose her or my future husband. What can I do to make her cut the cord and allow me to live my own life or what I need to do to get away from her and her childish behavior. I'm tired of having to walk on eggshells around my mom.

What is considered controlling, does this fall in that category?

My bff and I have been very close for about 13 years. I have been there for all her children when they were born and she has always been there for mine. She has no siblings so I am it. We are not intimate or have nothing to do with each other like that and we have just always had each others back. We are like sisters. She has been married for about 15 yrs. Her husband accepts me like we are blood sisters. He respects me and I respect him. When it comes to her husband she lets nothing come in between them and I admire her for that. She is very much in love with him and they are great together. They can talk to each other about anything(seriously). Well I have been with my fiance' for about 2 yrs and he knew how close we were when he and I met. I used to talk to her like everyday just about girl stuff, the kids, current events and things like that. He works everyday from 8-5 and most of the time (about 6 hours) he and I are on the phone. So I have no time to really talk to anyone else on the phone because I talk to him so much. After he gets off work I make sure that I don't have anything planned so he and I can be together. It seems like he is unhappy with everything that I do because he is always right. He is 10 years older than I am and he lets me know that often. I really love this man very much because he is really there for me but he is trying to keep me in a fish bowl. I have been planning to leave him without telling him. Just the other day I asked her about coming to her apt complex and she and I hit the gym 2-3 times a week and he got pissed. He told me that it would be too much time with her. He says that "women shouldn't be running after each other like that". I was upset with him because he thinks that I'm a h** because he has this idea that she and I are intimate. This really kills me! I have not been hanging with her(she's the only friend that I can trust, hell she's my only friend) at all because of him. We used to have lunch every other week but he thought it was a bad thing so we haven't done it in quite a few months. When my daughter got sick about a month ago, she immediately showed up to give support. We have always been there for each other family and all. I don't understand why my fiance' doesn't care for her when he doesn't even know her. They have never really been around each other except for one day when she was dropping my daughter off from a weekend with them. She wasn't planning on getting out of her van but the kids were having a fit to give me a hug and a kiss. Well she got out of the van and he found out that she was there so he left work in a hurry and came home and looking at everybody all mean. He said that he was upset because she didn't have on a bra. Well hell I never noticed that she did or not. He should have no reason to dislike her. She is always trying to walk on eggshells and respect the way he feels because she cares for me too but he doesn't give a rat's butt about how she feels. I am so torn between them because I want both of them in my life but he is not giving in and I don't think he ever will. He doesn't want me to do anything that doesn't involve him. When he's at work and I say I'm going to wal-mart, he says for me to wait for him. Everyone he comes in contact with is his COUSIN so therefore when it's more to him than friends. I have always been there for him and have not given him any reason to distrust me. We are together all the time. But when he wants to go to an event that his "FAMILY/COUSINS" are at I always agree and go with because I love him. My only family here is my best friend and her family and when I ask him to do something with them as simple as dinner he doesn't want to. I am seriously planning to leave him and it's not because he doesn't like my bff but because I think that he is going to get worse if I marry him. Is this controlling or am I just overreacting?

Saturday, July 16, 2011

I was a victim of a fraud a few years back...?

Someone emailed me and offered me a job in England to which I hurriedly applied. I was so eager to find a job abroad then. After a few days, an email was sent by the alleged "employer" asking me for some documents including the scanned copy of my passport, to which i also sent. Not until, I read in one of the testimonials here in yahoo answers about a job scam. We have the same story, and same requirements were asked. I was involved in a scam! Worst, I already sent my scanned copy of my passport. Please help me, where to ask and check whether my passport is being used in the crimes they are involve. I am afraid that I may not be able to travel abroad, or worst, I already committed a crime that i did not commit. Where do I go and ask? Please help. My husband and I are planning to travel abroad, and I might be in grave danger.

Does she like me? (Yep, another one)?

from what u said, i believe she actually likes you. though she said she wasn't interested to your friend, she was lying. i am a girl so i would definitely know. she just isn't comfortable with saying it until she is sure about your feelings toward her. also, she probably doesn't find you as attractive as the other guys she dated before so she doesn't want to tell anyone in fear of what they might think. but actions speak louder than words. and she definitely likes you judging from her actions.

Any ideas to make money?

Does anyone know a way to make some ca$h? And please don't send me any websites cause i think those r scams

I feel like i have no one cus im stuck in a horrible sittuation please help?

Ok its a long long story but i met this girl from work about 2 years ago we were cool for about 6 months then became good friends then i met her boyfriend and then we became cool so it was the 3 of us and everything seems fine but now it seems shes becoming really selfish with everything she only cares about her self shes bitchy...never stops complaining about anything shes become severely jealous of me and especially jealous that i cant even talk to her boyfriend but the thing is she never tell me this it comes from him o she says i cant talk to you...hell tell me things like she goes places with him and never wants to invite me she never wants to go anywhere the 3 of us...but yet when her and i are together she treats him badly they always fight like cats and dogs and i always get the bad end...i feel like im always walking on eggshells around them i feel like i dont have friends because its always fighting on surrounded by jealousy we have been friends for 2+ years and they are all i have i try to make other friends but i keep going back to them but im miserable i feel like someones always lying like for instance we are going on vacation next week its been planned for 2 months its only been canceled like 5 times and the 2 of them fight and its for my birthday and i dont even feel like they wanna go...why am i so miserable and have miserable friends? what should i do to fix it

Kissed my best friend and enjoyed it....EEEEEEEEEEk!?

I have been friends with this guy since we were in school together and we always go out on the town nal that. He's my best friend and I tell him absolutely everything as in he rings me every night and we talk on the phone for hours. He managed to talk me into going to this charity event and he dropped me home in the early hours of the morning. I have had a thing for him for a while but since we were friends I just let it be i didn't see anything happening. I thoroughly enjoyed my time with him and the whole way in the car it was very flirtatious and there was such sexual tension there!!! As I went to leave we had an amazing kiss that literally sent me back for more. I had fallen in love with this guy only recently and what we shared was just amazing. The next night he called over to my place and just chatted and we kissed again only to be interrupted by my sister so he left then. I really don't know where this is going should I go for it or would we be better friends. I know he likes me but he's the type of guy I'd like to settle down with in the long run and I'm afraid I'd hurt him. We can't deny that there was something there but I honestly don't want to ruin our friendship. What do I do all help greatly appreciated!

Metropcs said i won tickets for six flags?

If this is your carrier (which it obviously is) try it out. Go to the site but do not enter any personal information that will make you vulnerable to scam artists. If in doubt, call MetroPCS and ask to talk to someone about it

What to do when walking on eggshells in a relationship you want to work...?

I was in almost the exact situation. We're not together anymore. I miss him and still think of him often, but we needed time to grow apart from each other. I'm glad I am not with him now, whatever the future may hold. It was my realization that love alone isn't enough, however rare it appears to be.

Is this common? do most guys do this?

And why do you think he is doing this? He seems pretty reserved and possibly shy...but definitely not flirtatious. He's also friendly and what not. He gave me his number and I texted him. He texted back with a hey. I asked when does he get out of class and he never wrote back. The next day he text's me and I reply. I reply back and then so does he but I say nothing back. Then, a few hrs later he replies with a hey. I reply back and now he is ignoring me. wtf is up with this?

HELP what type of abuse is this, if it is?

He is a complete assbutt... it is called emotional abuse... dump his retarded a$$ and get a man who will show you real respect...

Need Boyfriend Help!!?

Well overall he sounds like he cares a lot about you. Talk to him about it and i am sure he will understand. He bore you for 2 years so I do not think he will dump you if he cares about you. Anyway, relax and I guess let him have a break maybe? (not as in break up with him) but you know what i mean

Can a woman ever feel really happy after bearing a child out of wedlock?

At a recent wedding, the bride's children were the bridesmaid and page boy. I said to my mother "Mother, here is the perfect example of putting the cart before the horse". She smiled and said she didn't know what the world was coming to. The bride did seem very relieved to have finally corrected her mistake but I wonder if there is always that lurking anxiety that she got it all backwards and the wedding would have been so much more meaningful. You know 'Marriage is for the procreation of children etc'. The poor vicar had to cut those lines completely.I'm sure he felt like he was treading on eggshells.

If eggshell would be reduced to ash, how many hours does it take to turn into quicklime?

eggshell is composed mostly of calcium carbonate, and if CaCo3 is burned at 850 degrees Celsius, it would turn to quicklime... so how many hours does it take to reduce it into ash and turn it into quicklime at 850 degrees celsius. PLEASE HELP!! desperately needed.. thanks!

How can feminists say that this is a mans world and that women are at a disadvantage?

If the "common man" casually tosses as many insults at all women everywhere as you do, then that's a case in point for the relevance of feminism right there.

Invalid payment method on itunes?

I put in my credit card information and chose visa.. but it keeps saying the payment method is invalid and im sure i entered it in correctly... plus i am also out of the USA but I dont think that would affect it... and im also afraid that this could be some scam? :S is itunes trying to steal my credit card info ?:S

Money transfer and another transfer?

Somebody will send me money using Paypal, and I will withdraw the cash and send him back using western union and me keeping a portion. Please kindly enlighten me, is this a legit transaction? if ever a scam, kindly explain it how this will work, so i will be aware. Thanks in advance!

Two Consecutive text messages and cam rooms?

Are these a SCAM?! I was on a site where u can talk to people and be friends and stuff but certain girls send me a message asking if I want to come to their cam room and I need a card and saying "It's free" <--- is that a lie? 2nd The 2 Consecutive text messaging from another chick asked to do this and (I think u get charged for this) I guess u pay $0.99 for every receiving message. But if u have unlimited everything, how much are u charged?! I really don't trust this at all. Plz help me out.

What's up with this dude?

What he's doing is tryin to make you feel lucky wen h does reply by doing this he only txts back every other time you text him. Make him text you. Don't Text him first. Act like your not interested unless he shows hE is

Do most guys do this?

He seems pretty reserved and possibly shy...but definitely not flirtatious. He's also friendly and what not. He gave me his number and I texted him. He texted back with a hey. I asked when does he get out of class and he never wrote back. The next day he text's me and I reply. I reply back and then so does he but I say nothing back. Then, a few hrs later he replies with a hey. I reply back and now he is ignoring me. wtf is up with this?

My roommate and her boyfriend are ALWAYS at our place, how should I handle it?

I live in an apartment with one roommate, who I generally get along with great, and she has a boyfriend who I also generally get along with, but lately I cannot remember not having them around for more than about 60 minutes. She's asked me before if I mind him spending time here, but I haven't really found it troublesome until this semester, when I don't think he's slept at his place more than a handful of times, and she is constantly working, which I can't really begrudge her for, but going to the library would be nice so I don't feel the need to tip toe around. I've spent the last few weeks in the library, to come home every night to them in our living room, so I'm kind of forced into my room. Lately I've had a little free time and for the first time in weeks have been able t play a little guitar, but since I never have the place to myself, I'm limited to the 30 min or so I have until they come home again, since my room is right in the middle of our apartment, so regardless of them being in her room or the living room, I'm a disruption. We only have a month left here, so I don't want to start any fights or anything, but I'm not sure I can handle walking on eggshells in my apartment from the time I wake up until the time I go to sleep anymore. Any suggestions on how to handle this, or whether I should just try and suck it up for the last few weeks?

My brother won't speak to me for months if i buy an iPad?

iPad offers a lot of local multiplayer games and apps. Convince him that both of you having an iPad is a great thing and it's fun. I am sure that most of the games he's playing on his iPad support multiplayer, tell him that you would defeat him in of his favorite game if you get an iPad.

Do most guys do this?

And why do you think he is doing this? He seems pretty reserved and possibly shy...but definitely not flirtatious. He's also friendly and what not. He gave me his number and I texted him. He texted back with a hey. I asked when does he get out of class and he never wrote back. The next day he text's me and I reply. I reply back and then so does he but I say nothing back. Then, a few hrs later he replies with a hey. I reply back and now he is ignoring me. wtf is up with this?

What is wrong with my boyfriend!very crazy situation! pls help!?

It sounds like you already know. He is trying to control you, and you standing up saying No about him coming over made him realize or think that maybe you wouldn't let him control you anymore. Controlling relationships like that only get worse. He's trying to make you jealous and make you realize you want him more, because he thinks he can do that, by talking to your friend. If shes a real friend she wont talk to him. He's just grasping at straws, you did a good thing by standing up and saying No. Keep doing it and just see where things go. It might make him calm down on the controlling, or he might get tired of trying and find some other girl who he thinks is weak that he can control. Wear what you want!!! No matter if your 100lbs or 300lbs wear what YOU like!

My Boyfriend is confusing me!?

if i was you, i'd have broke up with him a long time ago. if you truly love each other you will get through this but if you don't love him i would move on and find someone you deserve.

How do I make money using the internet? I want honest and legit answers, no B.S?

Please share your experiences.I have checked out so many scam websites. I rather have truthful answers

Is this emotional/mental abuse?

I'm 19 and for years my dad has always had a bad temper and anger problems. He blows up over anything trivial.He blames everyone for his problems, especially family. He calls me worthless and lazy even though me and my bro both go to school/college and have weekend jobs. Sometimes I get really scared that he will hit me, then sometimes I wish he did so hard that I wouldn't wake up. I don't know how to report him as I don't get hit so I have no proof of bruises. He has got worse now that him and my mum have split up. He made her depressed so she left, now im angry at her cause she left us with him. I feel like im constantly walking on eggshells and Im sick of being controlled,blamed, put down, criticised, shouted at and threatened all the time. Sometimes he comes right up to your face shouting so you can smell his breath and spits all over you. I have no where to stay. I have a bf but he isn't much help :( Please help, I dont know what to do.

GIRLS why she acting like this?

When you show a guy alot of signs you like him then do this what dies it mean? this girl I know likes me has done things which in the past other girls that have liked me have done and asked me out, she always blushes when we make eye contact, staring when im not looking, open body language, staring right into my eyes after we talk and smiling, when we stand together shes always looking diwn and smiling and always smiles as we talk .. then when i asked her out she then turns around and says " I think you should know i have a boyfriends, been together a while so PROBABLY not a good idea going out for a drink" is she telling the truth even though she has shown good signs and no negative body language .. Is it a test? what should I do? Or is it an outright slow let down .. It's been over a week since I've seen her after asking her so don't know what she's feeling, but now it's like she's avoiding me .. I genuinely like her and want to get to know her .. Shes not a flirtatious girl from what I know ..

Dollarsurveys.net is a scam!!!?

Don't waste your time with any of those survey things online. It's all a waste of time to get your information or money.

So a good guy friend, who has a girlfriend, has been drunk texting me. Points!!?

So we've been friends for almost 3 years, and even though we always flirt/cuddle etc, we never crossed the line as to not mess up our friendship. Lately he's been drunk texting me a lot, saying that he likes me, and in the midst of things i told him i liked him too.. but nothing could ever really happen between us. Now, when he's sober, he's been acting a lot colder and less flirtatious/friendly... but when he's drunk he's always texting me and hinting on us hooking up, etc. I can't help but feel like i may have lost him as a friend.. am i over exaggerating?

What should I do about my flirty housemate?

I think it's time for you to move to be closer to your boyfriend. Obviously you're lonely for him or you wouldn't be upset that your roomate has denied you. Good luck.

I dont know what to do anymore?

i say do what your parents said to do if she hit's you again hit her back or ask a friend if you could practice at their house

Is there a website that gives you free gold on runescape?

Im kinda curious but I just want to know if there is a website out there that has a thing that gives you gold to show that they work and THEN scam you.

Is this a scam http://www.vendio.com/stores/CheaperDeals_/item//apple-macbook-pro-intel-core-i/lid=14121957?

it looks to good to be true but watched a youtube video of an unboxing of a product bought from this site,is it legit or a scam?

Am I a hypocrite or just paranoid?

You are a hypocrite AND paranoid. And it is easier see the faults you possess mirrored in other people than it is to deal with it within yourself. Take responsibility and deal with the most important person in your life (YOU) before you move forward and dump your problems on someone else.

Friday, July 15, 2011

What do you think of me?

Maybe I am writing this to make myself feel better or just so I can think sanely. I think its a mixture of things. I really dont know what to think anymore. At home, my dad is mentally abusive to me.I have it VERY bad and many people have told me that but dont know what to do. He is a control freak, controlling virtually every element of my life. I am in my second year of uni now, and i left to halls which was a great break through for me. My parents promised if I stayed in the same city as them they would support me financially and my mum promised she wouldnt make me go home. She lied and they kept making me go home or threatening to cut me financially. In the city I live in, I am entitled to a loan but I couldnt possibly be without my parents support. I have been crying virtually evey day and I have sought support for that, but it was realised that these problems will go away once I can support myself. During the year, I spent as much time I could with my boyfriend. He knows everything about me. I felt that all my other friends were fake. I made new ones in university, but they are all in different cities. I have realised terrible things about my boyfriend. He has tried to pressurise me into sex, he is extremely flirtatious with other girls and he is a big liar. But I act as if I am indifferent to all that as I feel as though I dont want to be with him in the long run and have confidence that once I am able to support myself, I wont need him anymore. But I did a very bad thing. I told him we should take a break, and then after explaining to him why for all these reasons, I told him I had lied and in fact it had been my parents who had told me to stop seeing him. When I had said we should take a break, he had turned on me and said he was going to break up with me the whole time but he had not gained the courage and felt freeer already. I instantly felt hurt and that the whole world was genuinely fake. It was painful and I felt I needed him again, I would just play along in this fake world as I have to be void so my parrents dont hurt me. So I said that and he tookd back everything he said and was supportive of me. And said he loved me. But I feel sick as I dont know what to do now, I dont really want to go out with him but I dont feel I have the same security with ordinary friends. They will not come with me to my door when it is dark so I can be away from my parents for a night. I need your opinion? What do you think of me? Do you think I am a bad person and just long gone?

How did the pesticide DDT affect eagles, pelicans and other predatory birds?

It's B. You can read about it here a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ddt#Effects_on_wildlife_and_eggshell_thinning" rel="nofollow"http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ddt#Effects…/a

Why or what does it mean when my mouth and lips dry out right before I kiss a girl? ?

I'm really comfortable around girls and really flirtatious, however I haven't kissed or madeout with a ton, but quite a few. My lips get chapped, mainly dry and my tounge and mouth feel very dry, almost dry spit. Is it just nerves? can I fix it by just more expierience?

Is my boyfriend controlling me?

I deleted my previous account, because I don't want this in any way getting back to him. Alright, things were great in the beginning. He was really attentive.. really caring. We always say that we love each other, that sort of thing. But last week, I wanted to change some things about myself. I am a natural redhead with freckles and pale skin and clear emerald green eyes. Well, I like to experiment new styles, new colors, and I always have, ever since I was around 15. Well, I just dyed my hair a chocolate brown color and started tanning, and he said he absolutely hates it. We have gotten into fights about it, because he says that I listen to everyone else but him on this matter. That it seems like I am changing things about myself because I have something to hide. I get bored with the way I look, and want a change, I don't find that there is anything wrong with that. I sometimes feel like I am stepping on eggshells around him, when he used to be so sweet in the beginning. He is also a Capricorn, and I am his polar opposite, a Cancerian, if that even matters. Also, he gets upset if I log out of all my messengers (usually we talk on Skype and Facebook when we do IM each other). And if I don't answer the phone, he complains that I am never home. He said he hates it when I make these changes, with a passion. And that it annoys him when I bring it up. But I hate fighting with him, and try my best to avoid a fight at all costs. We have known each other for years, we went to high school together, and we lost touch for a while, and we are both now about to be 28 this year. So time has definitely made change to how we are. And also, I don't know if this has to do with anything, but he is also in the military. So please. be informative as you possibly can, and only serious answers please. I don't want any games or BS. I need advice on what to do.

GIRLS why she acting like this?

When you show a guy alot of signs you like him then do this what does it mean? this girl I know likes me has done things which in the past other girls that have liked me have done and asked me out, she always blushes when we make eye contact, staring when im not looking, open body language, staring right into my eyes after we talk and smiling, when we stand together shes always looking down and smiling and always smiles as we talk .. then when i asked her out she then turns around and says " I think you should know i have a boyfriends, been together a while so PROBABLY not a good idea going out for a drink" is she telling the truth even though she has shown good signs and no negative body language .. Is it a test? what should I do? Or is it an outright slow let down .. It's been over a week since I've seen her after asking her so don't know what she's feeling, but now it's like she's avoiding me .. I genuinely like her and want to get to know her .. Shes not a flirtatious girl from what I know ..

How to seduce a Pisces man when not in a relationship?

I like him...and hes a Pisces man so he knows it...he is extremely flirtatious and if you have the experience you know what he can do with his eyes and non verbal expressions...he sets me off on purpose and makes me so jealous it is annoying! I'm a sag women and i would like to know what to change about my self to get him turned on to me..i realize since hes a Pisces I'm going to have to make the first move... but Pisces man also appreciates the non blunt thing so how can i get him after me so i can seduce him??

Is it safe to send �75 activation fee to localcourierservices.com?

a friend applied for a job on localcourierservices.com but advertised on work circle, they are asking for �75 to be paid to activate the account, they are the first to come up on google, just unsure if its a scam?

I want to become an actor. Please help with advise?

Ok so I want to become an actress or dancer ( and dancing is out of the question because I suck). I am not going to take classes or that kind of crap, and I don't think I need them. I've seen websites and they aren't real, just stupid scams, but where do I start? I want it more than anything but I haven't even told my parents! I just want to act , preform whatever it's my dream. I know not everyone is cut out for it but I can at least try right? Please tell me where I should start and how to get there without a huge hassle. Thanks, Jordann

Do you ever feel like your child is unhappy?

Some children need a predicatable order to their lives in order to be happy. Doing the same thing at the same time, in the same order, preferably with the same people. It gives them a feeling of control in this out-of-control world. They do much better in a structured environment because they know what's going to happen next. It doesn't have anything to do with your parenting. It's personality.

Have this chain letter ever worked for anyone?

This is absolutely a scam: Ponzi scheme. It's also illegal and subject to prosecution by the USPS.

Is Solid Deposits' customer service specialist position legit or a scam?

I have just received an e-mail saying that a company called Solid Deposits (located at http://solideposits.com ) has a position of customer service specialist available. The e-mail says that this is a work from home position (which automatically seems sketch) that is not involved in sales but instead deals with customer inquiries. The e-mail does not ask for my social; however, it does ask for an address and phone number. The application that was attached asks for a signature and references. This seems to good to be true; however, I can not find anything online about it being a scam. Therefore, I thought I would write something on here to get feed back and reveal its true identity to the public or perhaps show its legitimacy. Thank you so much!

Men ALWAYS pick woman for their looks, stop being ignorant people!?

This guy obviously has had trouble keeping a relationship. Everything you have said has been absolutely incorrect and false. You are the definition of the douche bag that girls avoid.

Where can I purchase a pure-breed golden retriever?

I know I have to purchase a dog from internet by emailing with breeder. However, how can I purchase my money to the owner in order to get my dog (credit card? cash? check? etc.) ? If I pay my money online, is there any chance of getting scam by breeder? How can I get my dog home? Do they just mail my dog (if the breeder is out of my state) ?

How can I handle my ex, we brokeup about 9months ago we have still been on good talking terms, but recently?

I have a 5yr old with her, we were together for about 10yrs. Since we brokeup she we have still been acting like we were good friends. But she has been, going out with her friends who are desparate for men. Anyways I have been, hoping that we can have our family back, even though she has said no a couple of times, she has been a bit flirtatious with me. For a bout 6 of the the 10yrs we were together she has been in contact with a guy the showed her a bit of interest while she was uni. When we broke up she went cinema with in a week or so after we broke up, I then discovered that she is still in contact with him and was tell this guy personal stuff about my child. A week ago I went to her house to see my son, I noticed that her phone was going off a bit, I got curious, so when she left the room I checked it to see, I discovered that she was talking to another man and there was pictures of his face and penis, when I asked her about it she denied anything to do with him, she then said she was seeing him, and started to crying saying that now everything is going to change and how she things I will never help her again. I told her I was sorry went through her phone, and was really shocked that she had been using me. Since then she has stopped talking to me, even tho when I call to speak with my son when never picks up, or even answer any of my texts. What should I do, should stay away from her completely.

Need advice...or real life experiencess...please!!?

Going to try and make a long story short....three weeks ago I left my emotionally/verbally abusive husband and moved three hours away, with our child (he's 4), to be with my family. On Easter Sunday he had threatened to beat the **** out of me and kill me. That was my last straw and from that moment forward I started planning my escape. With legal advice, I decided the best thing to do was move away as fast as I could. Over the past 4 years the emotional abuse, suicide threats, and anger has gotten worse and worse. I begged him numerous times to please get help...he always refused to go to counseling or get on medication. I tried so hard to make things work, I walked on eggshells daily, feared the next time he would get mad, and got to a point that I didn't want to go home or spend any time with him...When I left him it sent him into what he calls "crisis" mode...and it got him into emergency counseling and got him in to see a psychiatrist for free...he was diagnosed bipolar phase 1, and has been put on depakote, which I has suspected for a very long time. He never thought it was real, he said that it was just people around him pushing his buttons the wrong way and making him angry. He says I never should have kidnapped his child away from him. One minute he says he's going to fight me for full custody, the next he's saying he doesn't want anything to do with either of us anymore, the next he's ready to kill himself because he can't take the pain from all of this. He says I should have NEVER left a sick man like this...I could not take it anymore. It has put me In a depression and caused my concentration to be absent, along with my anxiety and OCD to be very bad. I basically left him with nothing because I was the only one working and paying the bills, while he was in school and I was having to help him with his homework cause he didn't feel like doing it...I'm also In grad school and take care of our child...he did nothing around the house to help me, nor did he...

Is this car sale a scam?

This lady is selling a Bugatti Veyron REPLICA for $2,600. She claims it was her husbands and she ended up with it after the divorce. $2,600 just seems to good to be true. I spoke with her to confirm the price and she says she just has no use for it. Now the reason why I believe it's true is because I am sure it is hard to sell replicas as you would want to buy the real thing not a replica. I looked at a website that sells brand new replicas of this car and they had them listed at 26,000. This car is 3 years old and has 994 miles on it. Is this a scam or is she really just trying to get rid of it?

Is this common? do most guys do this?

And why do you think he is doing this? He seems pretty reserved and possibly shy...but definitely not flirtatious. He's also friendly and what not. He gave me his number and I texted him. He texted back with a hey. I asked when does he get out of class and he never wrote back. The next day he text's me and I reply. I reply back and then so does he but I say nothing back. Then, a few hrs later he replies with a hey. I reply back and now he is ignoring me. wtf is up with this?

How do I stop myself from being so irritable and angry with being bipolar?

It sounds like you are aware of when it is starting to happen. Commit to yourself and be very mindful of those signs. Commit to being quiet and doing something that you know will draw that feeling away. Tell your mom and anyone else that you want, when you start to see the signs, that you are going to just be quiet and not talk until it passes. That way they will understand your silence is not a negative towards them. I have used that method with good results. Being quiet is good because when you get angry, some things seem like a really good idea, then later you have to deal with something else entirely.

How do I paint indoor metal door?

I am in the process of stripping the inside of my garage (into kitchen) door. It is metal, and has about 6 layers of paint that are coming off. I don't want to go through this again, so I need some pointers. First, can I use a latex paint? If so, semi-glossy, or high gloss? It previously had eggshell on it, and attracted SO much grime. I would prefer not to use oil-based paint unless absolutely necessary, as fumes can trigger seizures.

How to know if your boyfriend likes another girl?

Ok well my boyfriend and i have been together 9 months and lately i have been noticing his strange and different behaviour around a certain girl who happens to be in his class. I always see the two of them together and they both act very flirtatious around each other, like touching each other and constantly mucking around together. however my boyfriend and i spend tinme together after school and lately he puts this other girl before me hangs out with her and not me and blows of our previous arrangements for her. i undersatnd that he can have other friends who are girls and i'm fine with that it just seems lately that maybe he has feelings for this other girl. I know that this girl likes him and its obvious everytime i'm around him she comes up buts in and just starts flirting with him infornt of me. anyway so do you think my boyfriend likes this other girl? and what should i do about it? thanks :)

Does medication do more harm than good? What's the point of taking them?

Sure there are some benefits but for my case I think the negatives outweigh the positives. Without my medication I feel more even. On meds, I feel great but as soon as it wears off I feel like crap. The highs and lows are just too much and I do not want to be dependant on them for the rest of my life. I rather feel slightly miserable than have the soaring highs and crashing lows. It's just too much for me. I think most forms of medication are a scam and a bandaid solution to a deeper problem.

Has anyone else been through this with a breakup?

I've never been through a situation like that. I think that you should forget about them and make new friends.

What is the best way to sell my AKC Lab puppies?

I have a litter of AKC Chocolate and White labs, I have put them on several websites and I have had several people try to scam me by doing this. Does anyone know of a better way of finding my puppies good homes??

Brother with severe anger problem?

I have a 23 year old brother who has been in jail off and on since he was 12. He has an extensive criminal record, can't get a job, can't do anything for himself. I am at the end of my rope because I dont know what to do anymore, you cant reason with him, he constantly demands things. He "works" with my mother cleaning houses, but he is constantly yelling and screaming at her while they are at her clients house, putting her job on the line. and on days that she does not feel like being harassed by him, she still has to pay him for a full days work. He lives with me now.. and now I dont feel safe in my own home.. i feel like i have to walk on eggshells around him.. He has gone as far as hitting me & destroying my property. I sometimes feel like calling the police, but jail makes his anger problems worse. Is there anyone way we can have him arrested during one of is outburst and have him seek mental health instead of going to jail?

Wives - Is it normal to sometimes resent or detest your husband?

My husband acts like such a JERK sometimes, and I find myself resenting him and feeling so much anger at him. I have tried every method I know to let him know in a kind way that something he does is bothering me, but any time I say ANYTHING to him at all, no matter how loving and understanding I am about it, he gets very nasty and says sarcastically, "Wow what a surprise, I can't just be myself, I have to fit into your mold and change who I am for you." It's not like I ask him for things all the time - It's just every once in a while, if I feel like I need a little extra reassurance of his love and caring. If I am in need of extra emotional support or just a little extra love and I mention it to him, he gets all huffy and mad at me because I brought it up, instead of just being there for me in my time of need. An example is I was threatening miscarriage and felt like I needed extra support and just wanted to have a little extra love from him, but of course he couldn't handle it and made a really big deal out of the fact that I was asking him for a little extra love. He acts like such a child at times, and it makes me want to rip out my hair because it's like I can't communicate to him in ANY way that he would consider okay. It's like he never wants to hear me make even one suggestion or complaint for the rest of our lives, and I feel it is so unfair. What can I do? I just want to communicate with my husband and tell him sometimes if something really bothers me, but he makes me walk on eggshells because, God Forbid, I want my husband to be loving towards me or caring and considerate. I am just so fed up - Any advice or suggestions would be so helpful. Thank you so much.

Where do you draw the line on what comes off as offensive to people?

I mean when I ask questions on Yahoo Answers. People report my questions I assume because they were offended by it. It's like walking on eggshells depending on the categories you ask in. Yahoo has ignored my appeals like long ago. The don't even respond anymore. Any suggestions on what I should do about this?

Why does this girls keep telling me this?

the same thing went on w/me..............she was flirting but now we are bf n gf for about 2 years :)

Is there any way to get a schizoprenic person in denial diagnosed?

Interventions are used for getting the attention of rational people. They do not work with psychiatric problems. The only options for a person that has a psychiatric problem are for someone to keep pressuring her to see a doctor, let it go, or seek a court order to have her declared mentally unfit. Court orders are not granted unless there is compelling evidence of a threat such as a history of police interventions, emergency room visits, or commission of crimes. Your grandma is free to live her life as she pleases even if you know that she would be better off with some type of treatment.

Are art instruction schools that I see about on tv the real deal or a scam?

I love to draw, and I would love to learn more about sketching and painting, And I always see these commercials on tv for art instruction schools where they mail you the lessons and supplies and you get to take a test and you get in for free, and I was wondering if they are any good, or just a scam. Not just the test itself, but the class in general.

Why am I always texting her first?

She's nervous and doesn't want to seem like a stalker. If you stop texting her, she'll think that she freaked you out with her "I'm always looking at your pictures on fb" stuff.

Do I have a right to feel the way I do?

tl;dr. it seems to me like he's an insensitive butwipe, but at the same time you're a freaky stalker. so yeah, and i only read like 1/3rd of it becuase then i saw there was a ton mroe and got lazy.

See what my sister said to me? Was this an insult or a compliment?

My sister was talking to me the other day about the financial crisis. We have led different lives and are now in our 40s. I studied finance, concentrated on my career and held down pretty good jobs. I didn't date very much until in my 30s and never married. She on the other hand, didn't stick to her studies, dated loads, married and unfortunately divorced 2 years later. My mother always used to say she was extravagant. My aunt told me that she had confided in her that one of her big problems was that she was jealous of me. (I was shocked as she is more intelligent and is as pretty and popular as I am). Anyhow, we chatted about the financial crisis and she said to me 'You're smart, you were always tight'. Do you think this 'tight' comment was a compliment or an insult? Advice please as I'm kind of afraid of my sister even though we're adults, I feel like I'm walking on eggshells talking to her.

Has anyone purchased a painting from algallery.com blue moon art gallery?

If so how long did it take to receive your painting? I realize the company is in china and i was wondering how long it would take to get to the united states? or if this site is a scam and is stealing peoples money?

Graduation Dress Help?!?

For my 8th grade graduation, I bought a dress and i don't know what shoes, purse, jewelry to buy. Its short, strapless and like an eggshell or slightly cream color. Its hard to find shoes and a purse that would match in color because i want to add some color to the plain color dress. Also, i don't know about jewelry either. Suggestions?

Matched paint is not as "eggshell" as original?

My touchup paint matches PERFECTLY color-wise; however, it's a little duller than the "eggshell" or "satin" that's on the walls. Can I add anything to the paint to gloss it up a little, or paint something OVER it? If so ... what?

Can I get fingerprints off eggshells after someone egged my house?

I would'nt put yourself to any further concern or expense about it. Unless you have knowingly upset some individuals recently, I imagine that it was just children playing and picked your house at random. The police would'nt waste resources investigating your complaint as the fine imposed in court would be far less than the costs to run tests on the evidence

Is Skyword Inc. a reliable company or a scam?

They are looking for freelance writers but they want you to fill a W-9 and this implies giving them your S.S. number.

Is there an official name for that Nigerian email scam?

I have to do research on some part of the "underground economy" for a class, and I would like to research that email scam, where they say that you have to pay a small amount of money in order to get large amounts, but then you never do...is there an official name for that?

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Can a girl like another guy even when she has a boyfriend?

Is it possible for a girl to like another guy even when she has a boyfriend? This girl I've liked for a while always flirted with me in class she definately likes me I think I know the line between just flirtatious and actually liking someone, she comments on my FB statuses all the time but she has a boyfriend from another school where in grade 11, could she like me despite her boyfriend??

What should i do? Should i stay and see, or leave?

So iv been with this girl for awhile now, were "dating" but not "official", which worries me becuz idk if she would do anything with another guy or not since were not "official", we kiss an have done more, we hangout practically everyday, she flirtatious, an shes just friends with other guys an that worries me too, iv come to relize that i have very strong feelings for the girl, she tells me she cares about me an such, but idk if the feeling is mutually, she says shes not ready too be in a relationship, even though weve dated before, so whatever that means, an i always wonder if shes going to break it off an go for another guy. Some people tell me to let her go if shes going to be this difficult, an that shes leading me on an im going to get hurt, iv been thinking alot about it an im not sure what to do, it kills me to think about this becuz i think there can be something... I told her that if she doesnt want to date me, (which i have been giving her time to think about an i dont pressure her at all) that i cant be just friends becuz i like here way too much an i dont want to go through the exact samething the last time we dated... HELP!!!!!

Is he for real or just playing?

i have been friends with this guy for while, i hadn't seen him four about a year, we live some distance apart. Kept in contact every now and then on fb. I ran into him a couple of weeks ago, we were getting along just like old times. he started sending me kinda flirtatious messages on fb out of nowhere calling me by pet names, caught me off guard but i did reciprocate a little cause i've always kinda had a crush on him, but i'm not sure if he is joking around or if he is actually for real, Last time he sent me a messages was like a week ago, what do i do?

What are penny auctions ?

what are penny auctions, how they work? what is the best way to win? any good tips? any bad scam sites to watchout for? any recommend sites?

How to get over narcissist ex boyfriend ?

How about you try just getting over it? It's easier than your making it. I mean seriously. **** happens. I don't mean to be a dick, but come on. I don't know why you women don't just leave these kinds of guys at the first sign of trouble.

I don't know what to do anymore?

stand up to her next time! she has anger issues.tell your parents you will leave if they do not support you on this matter she has no right bullying you and assaulting you.she is clearly very jealous of your talent

What to do with my overly flirtatious friend?

Okay so one of my closest friends ever!!! Is superrr flirty... and we're going to camp next week. Meaning: TTOONNSSS of guys.. And since she is one of my bffs, ima have to deal with it. But i don't know how. Cause if i do tell her, she's guna say something back at me, and i dont want no drama at all. Ive already tried talking to her.. She also is in a serious relationship, but he takes it seriously while she only does half way. Yeah, she's pretty. But it gets annoying when all she talks about is guys she flirts with. What can i do? Im going to be miserable on what is supposed to be one of the greatest weeks ever!!! But i wanna keep our friendship of course.. PLEASEE help!! Thank youuu!!!

The basment guys? legit company?

i entered a contest they had that was listed on my local news channels website and they called me and asked me if i wanted a free inspection with no obligation to buy anything on top of that they are giving me a free 1,000 dolor gift certificate is this just a scam or come on my dad says they will make up something that cost 7,000 and then just take a 1,000 off and make it 6,000

What did someone shoot or throw at my car?

This happened about an hour ago. I was driving down a residential street on my way home from work then BOOM...right on my drivers side door, scared the crap out of me. So I pull over and look around and of course it's dark. I got a flashlight out and looked at my door and saw something wet but little whitish but mostly clear (don't get funny now)...I'm guessing an egg?? But the impact was so hard and LOUD and didn't see any eggshells. It's just weird because I could feel how hard the impact was and no dent or scratch. There are no trees on the street or anything. Is it possible somebody loaded up a bb, airsoft, paintball gun, slingshot or any other kind of equipment like that and used something else besides an egg? It wasn't really slimy. Please be kind.

What is homeboy doing? guys help?

Does he not want to appear clingy? He seems pretty reserved and possibly shy...but definitely not flirtatious. He's also friendly and what not. He gave me his number and I texted him. He texted back with a hey. I asked when does he get out of class and he never wrote back. The next day he text's me and I reply. I reply back and then so does he but I say nothing back. Then, a few hrs later he replies with a hey. I reply back and now he is ignoring me. wtf is up with this?

Is it customary to apply a coat of paint to repaired drywall holes?

A friend of mine patched up some drywall holes( in my apartment) and put a coat of white paint over each hole, one large and a few small. The wall paint is more of an eggshell. He said this is customary because the walls will be painted anyway, but these white patches of paint seem unnecessary. I'm concerned because I am in an apartment, although I've been here for 8 years.

Terrible twos or something worse?

If u stop spoiling her and babying her maybe this would not be happening 2 u she reminds me of my little sister she is 6 yesterday we were playing spades I speraded my card then her cards I had 3 aces she had nun when I played it she started sreaming and crying talking bout " Bree I have tht card she took me card" so we gave her the book next round she reniged the nshe lost but.... she was play with my big sis s oshe said "Dang Kayla y did u have more diminds in your hand Kayla Said," I DIDNT KNOW" crying THE END i HOPE THIS WORKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What Are The Protesting Laws, Regulations And Restrictions In Canada?

I live In Brampton, Ontario And Wish To Organize a Protest. Does Anyone Know About These Laws, And Could You, In An Eggshell Explain Them To Me? Thanks!

Explain my horoscope to me?!?!?

Have you been walking on eggshells around someone who's supposed to be a source of comfort and joy in your life? Are you always editing your words in the hopes of avoiding a firestorm of anger or because you're afraid that if you say the wrong thing you'll offend that person? If so, you need to take control of the situation. It's never healthy to tolerate such a hostile environment. Living that way can have damaging affects on your well-being. Make a point to approach this person and get down to the bottom of whatever is bugging him/her. The approach alone should calm things down.

What color should i paint my room?

im am a 14 year old girl and am moving my new room has two large windows that have a gap between them my bed is... ok go to jcpenny.com go to bedding type in teen vogue bedding my bed is exactly the same as the navy blue floral one with the throw pillows and everything just not the bed frame so that's the colors i have already for sure but my furniture is replaceable so advise on furniture is awesome too!!! as for paint i have no idea what to do people have told me to keep my room white because apparently navy and white look good together but that would make my room boring!!! i was thinking of this really pretty pink color that i originally had its called eggshell soft pink by behr but i still just dont know help!!!! thx

Does She Like Me Back?

She might like you, but she might just be playing with you because she knows you like her so she has the power now.

Need love/relationship advice?

Hmm I think that maybe u are self conscience around him or guys n genereallt bc of the fact that u are obese(which means nothing bc u r beautiful:))..and u feel more comfortably with ur body being with girls maybe that's why u can't imagine urself with him intimately..build self confidence bc I'm sure u can idt it has nothing to do with ur sexulity

Should I say something, he has a girlfriend?

Is it inappropriate for a guy in a relationship to grab another females lower back and waist constantly in a joking manner and he also will say he "loves" me? This guy we all hang out with does this to me and I really don't find the touching of the waist or lower back necessary and it is a rather intimate area. He has been in a long term relationship. It really bugs me and I want to say something and don't know how to tell him. He comes across as very nice, but I can't stand players and that is what I view him as because I feel he is way too overly flirtatious to be in a relationship. Before I say anything, am I overreacting?

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

I've almost been scammed! Where should I report it? Police, Consumer's Agencies...?

It was for a work-from-home job that sounded too good to be true. But I went along with it, just in case... I have written records of all the conversations with two so-called-ladies from the "company that was about to hire me" that clearly make the scam very obvious! I would like to report it so that these people cannot make money out of honest -but perhaps naive- persons. Which institution will better take care of this issue? (Police, Consumers' Agencies...?). Thank you.

Please help,father wants contact after turning me away?

My Father,an Indian sikh had an affair with my mother 44 years ago,he had no contact with me but paid maintenance until I was 16.My mother died when I was in my early twenties and she was the only family I had, all the rest had died. I felt the need to contact him as I was now on my own as I wanted answers to a lot of questions.I eventually traced him to a sikh day care centre and I went to see him,he wouldn't answer my questions and said he didn't want me to come back.He told me I had a few siblings.unknown to my father i traced my brother and met 1 of my sisters,they had never been told about me and they never told their Father that we had met.I felt I was a dirty secret.I felt very unhappy but accepted that he didn't want me in his life.This year in january I contacted a friend who happens to know a friend of my Father,I was phoning her to wish her a Happy New year when she asked me if my Father had contacted me.I was really surprised that she should ask me this as she knew he had rejected me years ago.she then told me that My Father had contacted her friend and told her that life was too short and he'd told his wife and family about me and he wanted contact with me,He didn't have any phone number for me and didn't know where I lived.This message was passed on to my daughters boyfriend last november but he decided not to pass it on,as he doesn't like me.My Father stays in India for a few months of the year and he had already left for India before I got this message.My Father will be coming home soon ,I don't know when, but since I got to know that he wants contact with me,it has put me under a lot of stress,I have waited nearly all my life to be accepted and I have a lot of mixed emotions,I'm very apprehensive,every time the phone rings I jump,I can't eat properly my sleep pattern is disturbed and i have been physically sick through nerves.I asked my doctor for counselling before I meet my father but there is a long waiting list.Has anyone else been in this position and can anyone help me? I would like to know the best way to start the conversation going when i do meet him.I don't want to get over emotional and cry ,or get angry with him ,for rejecting me,as I just want to be accepted by him and don't want to scare him away,If anyone out there has any similar experience of this could y ou please help as i feel I'm walking on eggshells just now,Thanks very much

GIRLS why she acting like this?

When you show a guy alot of signs you like him then do this what does it mean? this girl I know likes me has done things which in the past other girls that have liked me have done and asked me out, she always blushes when we make eye contact, staring when im not looking, open body language, staring right into my eyes after we talk and smiling, when we stand together shes always looking down and smiling and always smiles as we talk .. then when i asked her out she then turns around and says " I think you should know i have a boyfriends, been together a while so PROBABLY not a good idea going out for a drink" is she telling the truth even though she has shown good signs and no negative body language .. Is it a test? what should I do? Or is it an outright slow let down .. It's been over a week since I've seen her after asking her so don't know what she's feeling, but now it's like she's avoiding me .. I genuinely like her and want to get to know her .. Shes not a flirtatious girl from what I know ..

Sims 3 flirtation question?

I was playing Sims 3 on the Xbox and I realized that the Sims will flirt with everybody ( even if they don't have flirtatious as a trait) I was wondering is it possible for a Sim to reject somebody? Or will the Sims just flirt with everybody

What is wrong with my mom?

My first thought was that she's probably too busy to actually enjoy it. Also, since she finds traveling around the world a normal vacation little things that most people enjoy such as family get togethers, or holiday's seem like nothing. She can't enjoy the priceless things in life. Which also makes me think maybe she's a snobby stuck up beotch. I definitely thought this when you said she was upset that you didn't pick up the house for the cleaning lady...isn't that the cleaning lady's job?! The way you approached her with your feelings wasn't appropriate, however your feelings towards her are normal. You should have a heart to heart with her, if she's not too busy. Really let her know how her mood affects her, and when she throws out excuses such as menopause tell her that you don't understand why she'd take out anger she got from something you have no control over on you and the family. I know what you mean when you always have to be the one to apologize to make things better, I had the same problem with a family member. We didn't talk for months, and she ended up getting back in touch with me. We were both past the anger we had from being around each other, and through the part where you think "Ohh, this would be much better with _____ here". We're fine now, and the break was worth it. You should either try talking to your mother alone sometime, and if it goes terrible (or if she refuses because she's "too busy") then wait it out. Don't bother talking to her until she realizes how much you mean to her and decides to get a hold of you herself. Hire a babysitter, it will prove a point and will be less stressful. If you can't afford a babysitter definitely find a new job. Just give it time, trust me. Everything will eventually fall into place, and you will know when it's happening. If you're questionable about it...then it's not happening. But it will. It always does.

DAYS: Is Sami a great liar or what?

I always hear things about Sami's character but I'm a new DAYS watcher (about three months or so) so sometimes I can't imagine it. The way she lied to EJ today about Rafe's behavior around the kids was pretty impressive. Especially since EJ knows his father created and monster and Sami has to practically walk on eggshells when she's around Rafe.

How to flirt with a guy in 8th grade?

I'm in 9th grad so i know what thats all about but girl i think the best thing to say is "soooo..." like let them lead the convo. i never thought it would work bu its amazing that boys have alot to say theyve just know they better let us do most of the talkin

How can i connvince my mom to take me to proscout modeling interview?

Tomororw pro scout modeling is coming to my area. I really want to go, because i really want to model btw im 12 5'1 and 70 pounds with long hair- anyways she thinks its a scam but my friends are going too - how can i convince her to take me - its free too

I haven't received my Family Force 5 bracelet from the online store?

So about 1 week and 1/2 ago I bought a bracelet from a bands online store. The band is Family Force 5. So, I haven't received it yet & I emailed the contact email, but they haven't emailed me back... So now my mom thinks it's a scam.. & it's not -.-' Soo anyways, I don't know what to do now! My mom won't let me buy anything else from there.. So next time should I use paypal just in case or? I dunno....

Help! is Cast Images reliable?

I'm trying to decide which agency I should look into for modeling. I was just wondering if Cast Images is credible and legitimite? Is Exalt serious too? or are they just scams? Their both in Sacramento so I'm not sure if their as serious as Ford, Elite, etc. Thanks!

My girlfriend says she having problems at home and she needs some space. but i keep thinking its a scam.?

well my girlfriend split up with me because shes having problems at home and she needed some space ans she says if i meet some other girl i should date them, and so we havent talked for a while. then she starts talking to me again and holding my hand and even kissing me when ever we go out. now she isnt talking to meonline. i keep thinking shes playing with me and its all a scam to break up with me

Websites to make money? ?

What are some websitea where you can make money online? Ones that aren't scams? Have you ever made money online? Thanks.

Repost: My boyfriend is always accusing me of kicking him out...?

First of all I really hope that you are not doing this in front of your child. Never say anything bad about the other parent in front of your baby. It sounds like you both have to grow up a little. He has a right to go out once in a while with his friends as do you. You need to sit down (after the baby is asleep) and talk. Make a plan and put in it that one or two times a month you each get a night out and the other one stays home with the baby. This gives you both time out and also time with the baby. It is all about give and take and sometimes you do have too give more than you get. And only ask him to leave if this is really what you want because one day he might leave and I do not think that is what you really want. Talk it out and you will see how well it works!

Do most guys do this?

texting is dumb immature and can be misconstrued. i know it gives you something to do and some complacency and it may even bring happyness because it seems like someone cares about you but ultimately it leaves nothing solved

How to get over narcissist ex boyfriend ?

Good for you for leaving him. I am still with my narcissistic boyfriend and he is literally driving me crazy. I really can't stand him and I call him out constantly on his narcissistic behavior but it doesn't change anything because they are incapable of change. though he does sometimes admit he is a narcissist. The only reason I am still with him is because we have a 3 year old son and I literally have nowhere else to go. My own family won't even take me in because they HATE him and they know if I'm there he will come around to see his son. He has stolen from my family, good friends, and even a place I used to work. We have been together over 6 years and I discovered his problem was narcissism about a year and a half ago. I educate myself constantly on his disorder and I plan on doing everything in my power to make sure our son doesn't become one of these monsters. Through research I have learned how to keep him somewhat under control but I feel like it is destroying me emotionally. If we didn't have a child I would not be with him I wish I had a way to get out like you did. I really envy you. Be strong and be happy you are rid of your emotional vampire. Once you meet a REAL man you will forget all about him. I say get out there and find a man that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated!!!!

What's the best way to deal with a mother that overreacts about EVERYTHING?

Maybe you should sit down and talk to her, and tell her she takes it too far sometimes. But always respect your parents. Always.

Girls:Why is she being confusing?

YOu should text her later on and ask her is she feels better and on facebook you should flirt when she posts like when she says that shes terribly sick or something be likee feeell betterr ! Or wen she says she wants someone to hang out with say " IM right hereeeeeeeeeeeeee" lol thats really cutee and you shouldnt give up on her. I think you should go and hang with her and her ex cuz they're both your friends so you guys could really have an awesome time plus if she goes alone with her ex he might make it romantic and make her like him again. Its kinda mean to your friend but 1. I know i wouldnt want people telling me just to back off cuz of my friend and 2. they broke up so its not like your doing anything wrongg, hope i helped ;D

How can feminists say that this is a mans world and that women are at a disadvantage?

If the "common man" casually tosses as many insults at all women everywhere as you do, then that's a case in point for the relevance of feminism right there.

Rising sun lending firm is a big fraud they are not a financial institution they are a big *** scam. please be?

Your best bet would be to file a complaint on http://scambook.com so you can raise more awareness and attempt to assist other victims.

Do eggshells release toxic fumes when they burn?

I want to try and carve an eggshell using a high voltage arc (i love messing with HV), but i don't want to do it if the eggshell's going to release a bunch of toxic fumes or go up in flames completely while i'm trying to do that. I know this is a bit of an obscure question, but any help will be appreciated.

Missing robin eggs..?

a robin built a nest and laid 4 eggs on the windowsill right outside my bathroom. however, after a few days, the eggs disappeared. there are no eggshells on the ground under the window. what could have happened to the eggs?

Why is my boyfriend doing this to me?:(?

You need to get out of this relationship. I know what it feels to walk on eggshells. It sucks. He is abusive and controlling. Dump him. You need to do it. Even of you care for him a lot. It's best for you

Is my marriage worth saving? Serious Answers Only!?

Nope. You called your relationship "star-crossed". If you payed attention in school and learned about the archetypes (Mother, Father, Child, Shadow, Trickster, Star-crossed lovers, etc.) you would know that star-crossed lovers are meant to be torn apart. You are screwed.

Bipolar mother and I need out?

Your mom is really nuts, seriously. There is no way that is just depression. HPD is a better fit but honestly some illnesses stack with others and go unocticed. You are not a bad person for saying screw it, she is really bonkers. My mom has depression and she's no where near this since she's on prozac or something.

How come these African scamers can't come up with a better scam?

It crazy these stupid African scamers think I'm really stupid like come on it the same story like they can't make a better story or something. I don't know why they used a white women photos everyon know their no white people in in Africa expect in South Africa. Some American are dumb enough to fall into their trap. Earlier this scamer though got me figure out l'm think to mine self she don't know me talking about her boyfriend left her in Africa, when she say that red flag I told her that I'm not stupid then she say something I don't care, she say I guess I die here I did laugh at that waste no time I deleted that person.... How come must people can't figure out it a scamers specily say from Africa knowing their no white people in these part of Africa?

I'm unsure if this craigslist posting is a scam?

They should be able to state which company is running it - a reputable PR research firm will always do that. AC Nielson, and other companies will always state who they are, but the actual coffee brand need not be announced until you try it out. But the 'dress professionally' part makes it seem like a recruitment drive for an MLM company.

How do I stop myself from being so irritable and angry with being bipolar?

It sounds like you are aware of when it is starting to happen. Commit to yourself and be very mindful of those signs. Commit to being quiet and doing something that you know will draw that feeling away. Tell your mom and anyone else that you want, when you start to see the signs, that you are going to just be quiet and not talk until it passes. That way they will understand your silence is not a negative towards them. I have used that method with good results. Being quiet is good because when you get angry, some things seem like a really good idea, then later you have to deal with something else entirely.

Is he playing hard to get or what?

He seems pretty reserved and possibly shy...but definitely not flirtatious. He's also friendly and what not. He gave me his number and I texted him. He texted back with a hey. I asked when does he get out of class and he never wrote back. The next day he text's me and I reply. I reply back and then so does he but I say nothing back. Then, a few hrs later he replies with a hey. I reply back and now he is ignoring me. wtf is up with this?

I'm not scared of him, so how do I stop flinching?

What you've described is common for people with a history of DV. Obviously sudden motions and raised voices are triggers for you. Your boyfriend can help by being mindful of his actions and the tone of his voice. And you can help yourself by seeking some counseling from a licensed mental health professional with a concentration in victimization.

Do most guys do this?

And why do you think he is doing this? He seems pretty reserved and possibly shy...but definitely not flirtatious. He's also friendly and what not. He gave me his number and I texted him. He texted back with a hey. I asked when does he get out of class and he never wrote back. The next day he text's me and I reply. I reply back and then so does he but I say nothing back. Then, a few hrs later he replies with a hey. I reply back and now he is ignoring me. wtf is up with this?

PTSD From Emotional Abuse?

I know that war veterans and people who have been physically and sexually abused can develop PTSD, but what about those who were emotionally abused? In my case, physical abuse only took place on less than ten occasions and it was never life-threatening, but the criticism and manipulation and years of walking on eggshells and thinking the entire thing was my fault makes me wonder. I have nightmares about it, but still, I can stand to talk about it. It doesn't bother me much any longer, only when I heavily dwell on what happened to me. What would acute PTSD consist of?

How come everyone calls us (black girls) rude?

Your question is obviously an overstatement because “everyone” does not call Black females “rude.” Nevertheless, to answer your question, many people believe Black females are rude because they might often come across rude Black females within their personal experiences, and because of failing or perhaps outright refusing to know that mere personal experiences do not entail encompassing truths, they conclude that all or most Black females are rude and judge them accordingly. The far more illogical types might automatically assume that a Black girl would be rude 24/7 based upon the false premise that “all” Black girls are rude, which can be considered “racial stereotyping.” Perhaps if they familiarised themselves with the concept of “hasty generalisation fallacy” and how to avoid it, such a stereotype would not even exist for Black females to begin with. “Some” Black girls however, a quantifier that refers to an unspecified number of people that does not even guarantee 1% of a population, are “rude,” yet, “some” people within every racial group is rude and would likely become rude temporarily in certain situations. Thus, rudeness is a feature of human nature, not exactly Black-female nature. It just so happens that, due to racism, their environment and all the negativity within it, dysfunctional families, etc., many Black females typically find themselves in situations that would likely provide reason for them to act rude, which gives off the impression that Black females are typically ruder than females of other races without any real evidence to prove it true.

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Should I text him first? Did I scare him away?

well for one your not telling us wat you said to let you know if he might of took it wrong,and instead of texting him call him that will catch him off gaurd,n he will forget abt wat you text!!!!!

Random q's, answer 100% *easy 10 pts* ?

1. Maybe 2. I dont care 3. I dont know where that is so no 4.no 5. Dont have one 6. Dog 7. A girl 8. West 9. Idk 10. No. 11. No 12. Were all gonna die anyways 13. Dont care what he does 14. Chicken 15. No

How to get rid of strech marks?

Im 16. Had them since I was 13. And they're everywhere. Any home remedies or products that really work? I see tons on tv, but i need to know if it works or its just a scam. Please help.

Is this a "sexist and misogynist taunt", or have feminists lost all sense of humour?

Okay, would he have told another man to "calm down dear"? Of course not. If he had just told her to calm down, that would've been fine but don't add in a cutsie, demeaning name just because she's a woman. And I don't think that comment was meant to be funny, so I don't see how a sense of humor would be needed to be okay with this.

Help paypal scams, im apparently responsible even tho i had nothing to do with it?

ok so i'v been away for a week on a little vacation and my facebook got hacked. the hacker scammed a bunch of people and know they say im responsible. i dont know anything about this, can paypal give there money back somehow ? thanks.

Eggshell = Pink egg white?

i fried an egg and i noticed a tiny area of pink in the albumen after cooking. i have looked around online and found that pink egg whites can be a sign of the presence of bacteria, however the area in question had been split by a fragment of shell which was still lodged in the white and it appeared as if it had stained the albumen. is this possible or was my egg bad? the rest of the egg had no pink colouring.

How can I offset and compliment my outdated eggshell cabinets in the kitchen?

I'm in a rental, and I am allowed to paint the walls and trim. The walls, trim, counters, and cabinets are all eggshell. What colors can I use on the walls and trim to offset and compliment the eggshell cabinets and counters? The appliances are updated and are white.

Some Talent Scouts or Agencies in Florida for 14 year old actress/singer that aren't scams?

Check out the SAG for agency signatories. You'll also need signed written permission from your parents. Plus they will have to chaperone you to auditions.

What can I do about this shy and insecure guy? Does he even like me?

He most certainly has a crush on you too. But yeah, you have to make the first move. Not when anyone is around though. If you hug like that again just kiss him when he looks at you. It doesn't even have to be on the lips either. Cheek is just fine too. Just don't kiss him on the forehead (it's what you would do with a little child and basically says: I like you, but not like that and I want to look after you). You might also kiss him when you're talking and he suddenly just looks at you.

Don't want to go on family vacation this year.?

So my parents are wanting to take me, my brother, sister, brother n law, and 5 month old niece to Gatlinburg for like 3 or 4 days. But all my parents do is complain of how much I'M a financial burden to them (no one else). Needless to say, we don't get along. Always fight, etc. I don't want to go on family vacation (even tho this would be the first one we would go on) because not goin would be my vacation from them. I'm wanting to tell them that I have to work and can't get off. Is that wrong of me? I honestly need a break from them. We're walkin on eggshells with each other. It's not really vacation bc we live pretty close to Gatlinburg (only like 30 or 45 minutes if that). they have already put down a 300.00 deposit for a cabin.we will pretty much just staying in the cabin the whole time anyways.

What should I do about my fiances anger problems?

We have been dating for about 3 1/2 years now... we just got engaged a little while ago. I love him more than anything but I just don't know what to do about his temper. Leaving him is not an option. I just want to know what I should do to help with his temper problems. If something doesn't go right for him he flips out and screams at me. He throws things and hits things and sometimes he'll raise his fist at me. He's never hit me before. He has bitten me, and pushed me but never hit me. ( He and my sister got into an argument in the parking lot and I put my hand across his mouth to keep him from yelling at her.) We can't afford anger management classes right now. Although he has already gone threw anger management when he was younger and it obviously didn't work. I feel like I have to walk on eggshells with what I say and how I say it. He and his mom get into arguments super bad way too often. They yell and cuss each other out. I just don't know what to do anymore. If I say that I'm going to leave as in go for a car ride to get away from the situation, he'll flip out worse and threaten to kill himself or break things.He's gotten better than before because I made him do some anger management online things. They were free but he didn't do them very long and got aggravated after a while. I need advise on how I should handle this. I know that I don't make situations better sometimes but I don't start off yelling at him. After a while I start to yell back because I can't stand it. He also complains and whines about everything. What can I do? He is extremely negative about everything!!!!

Are Apostolic and Profetic Churches false if so why?

I have seen videos on you tube of faith healers and so called modernday prophets such as benny hinn be exposed of performing false prophecies and miracles. There is a church called el rey Jesus in miami florida where a man named Guillermo Maldonado calls himself an Apostle and I wanted to know if this man was a real apostle or a phony. If he is a true apostle is there anything in the bible or in christianity that says that it approves of modernday apostles or prophets. If he is a phony is there any evidence such as video footage that exposes him like benny hinn? Reason I ask is cus apostolic prophetic churches have been growing all over the U.S. and all of them seem to base there teachings on faith healing and prosperity which makes me suspicious. There all connected with benny hinn so it seems like a big money scam to me. I dont know maybe im wrong but maybe there are people out there better informed than me that can answer my question. There are four apostolic prophetic churches where I live but I dont know what to think of them. Are these churches legit or they just all a big scam that people should stay away from. Anybody?

Does a verbally abusive man ever change?

Its not impossible, but he has to really want to change. The way he is treating you is so wrong, that's not love. Try work it out by going to counseling. But if he clearly is not going to change you do need to leave him. The way he s treating you is not okay. He also needs to stop the drugs, not just for you, but for himself too. He will change if he truly wants to.

Is google giveaways legit?

I went to my google account and it said I could win a prize if I did a survey... Is it real? It was called giveaways and it looked legit in the google theme. It said a select few are randomly chosen? It had terms and regulations and everything and the survey was three questions. I could win an apple iPad, MacBook air or iPhone... I'm on my itouch is this real or a scam?? Please help it looks real!

What should I name my characters?

Sounds quite....interesting. I'd name the girl Claire because I have a friend that looks almost EXACTLY like that and she's one of my best friends. But if you don't pick Claire then I'd go with Raven or Robin. Or any other nice bird. Like, Claire Nightingale or something like that. Hope that helps!

Honestly guys, do you like your job and your salary? do you think it's enough?

There is a whole world of difference between networking, pyramiding, and network marketing. They are not the same. Do not confuse them.

Whats wrong with my boyfriend! very crazy situation pls help!?

Without going on and on about this supposed boyfriend, you'd just best get out of the relationship 'cause he's never gonna stop wanting to control whoever he's with. There have been too many scary stories about this kind of a guy and the girls they tend to control. The control part is really up to you, hon, and if you're gonna allow it, be prepared for it only to get worse and worse over time. You could be in real physical danger, not to mention that he also screws with your head!. There are so many other guys out thare who would treat you with the respect you deserve. Straighhten up your back, my friend, and tell him IT'S OVER and OVER FOR GOOD! Then WALK away & don't turn back! Your "friend" who he's trying to get with is no friend if she allows him to run her life, too. He's a loser! You deserve better. Go get some self-respect and a new boyfriend who's worth having.

LIZARD HELP :( !!! can it get into my bed??!?

i found a lizard in my dorm i put it under a tupperware but i accidentally got its tail off but as we all know they don't die if they're tails are chopped off!! anyways i left for 6 hours and its alive and i don't know what to do with it. my biggest fear in LIFE are snakes and im not usually scared of lizards but im freaked right now. im scared only if it gets into my bed and crawls on meeeeeee :( :( what if there are more lizards in my room :'( this one isnt scary i see them all the time in uni around trees, its 2.5 " long and thin and beige in color. i need to sleep tonight!!!! im so paranoid that if anything touches me i think its a lizard crawling on me ewww i know they are harmless and eat the ants and insects and i also heard eggshells keep them away but i don't have any eggs right now. please help what should i do with mr. lizard that's still in my room and if his buddies are too without me knowing :(

How did we get here? what's happening?

This woman has been interested in me for over a year. She communicated in several ways that she was interested in me, but I never paid her any mind. January 14, 2011 I finally respond to her and asked her out that night. She was nervous aswell as I. We double dated with my cousin and my best friend. We all had a great time and there was alot of chemistry between her and I. We talked constantly on the phone, getting to know eachother was very exciting. I made her feel good by simply being a good man, nothing more. She seemed extremely thankful for just the little things I've done, when I thought nothing of it and I would respond to her "this is what a man is suppose to do". She's been in a crappy marriage and apparently was a bit damaged. I told her that I'm a patient man. She wanted real and I gave it to her. I showed her compassion and appreciation. But happiness came and went. The relationship was going fast, we tried slowing down but our emotions and feelings for eachother was really getting the best of us. Then she started twisting my words and my actions. Simple things like leaving flowers or notes on her door step or calling her on a saturday morning to have breakfast, or askng her what her schedule looked like one week so that i can schedule time for us to spend together (since she communicated that i'm so busy with work) was my attempt to control her??? romance was no longer romance in this relationship and soon I was walking on eggshells with her. But I tried being patient with her, in my mind if I give her real and let her see that men are capable of love and sensativity that she will come around. in march she told me that she loved me so and wants to spend the rest of her life with me and that this scares her, she has never felt this way before....but things have been rocky. communication has been strained and often misinterpreted. I've been patient. we are now near the end of may. I feel like she and I have been together longer than 4 months. I've grown to love this woman, and I want to give this my best shot in making it work with her, but I'm starting to feel that she wants different. it's been almost two weeks. she hasnt shared how she felt about me at all. She doesnt want to talk to me, as it seems. I asked her several times "what's wrong?" but she would dismiss my question "nothing is wrong i'm fine, have a good day".....i try to reach out to her by giving her space and not talking to her all day, but send a small text saying "thinking of you and hoping you're doing well today" .... her response "thank you. have a nice day"......it's been a week and a half now and our convo's have been just like this. I call over the phone and I can tell she doesnt want to talk to me, it feels more so like i'm on the phone with a stranger...I can feel that something is wrong with her, but I seriously dont know what I did, nor why she is being so distant. she snapped on me on sunday when I tried talking to her, telling me to respect the fact that she has company (her friend) and STOP texting her, so i left her alone since.... I was advised to just let her be. cut her off. and see if she comes back or misses me. and if not then i have my answer all along. it's day two and I'm sick and I'm confused. I want and need answers. I don't understand HOW in the HEII i (we) got HERE. this relationship has been everything but smooth.... I dont know what to do. I don't want to push her away, so I left her be. but I don't want her to think that i don't care neither........ I know it's long and I am sorry.

RAW FEEDERS ONLY PLEASE-Should I give bones to a 16 year old recent raw convert?

My two spayed female cats ate kibble for the first 14 years of their lives, (one is now 15 and one turns 16 in July) and than I guess I grew a brain lol. They now do still have to eat a bit of urinary kibble to prevent UTIs but eat mostly raw organic grass fed red meat and organic free range poultry and have been for about 6 monthes when I switched my puppy. Before that they got a lot of By Nature Organics grain-free canned. They love it and it's improved their health so much just in the six months that it's unbelievable. I'd been giving them commercial Paw Naturaw raw poultry patties (originally bought for the puppy, who refused) and recently started giving them some of the ground beef I had for the puppy (she absolutely will not eat bones so I give organic eggshell powder instead) I had been tearing it into tiny pieces for them under the assumption that if the puppy wouldn't eat it in one piece, neither would they. I was tearing up the pieces for my younger cat Tigger when lo and behold Tabitha didn't want to wait and attacked her portion whole and tore it up all by herself. I ws so proud of her! . Anyways, this leads my to believe she'd have no problem with tearing meat off of bones and possibly even consuming the bones themselves. Tigger still needs hers torn into itty bitty chunks unfortunatly, but I would LOVE to be able to give at least Tabitha raw meaty bones for the dental benefits but don't know if I should-she didn't grow up eating bones at all and I'm afraid she won't properly chew (her teeth aren't bad but not in the best shape) and end up choking. Also, what are the softest. easiest bones to start with? I'm thinking maybe chicken necks? Or maybe even day old chicks if I can find them? I'm not averse to anything no matter how expensive or gross as long as I can get it organic. .Since my puppy won't touch bones I've never fed them. Thanks!

Buying an Asus G73jh?

ASUS G73SW-A1 laptop has performed well since I got it. I did have a slight problem with the Asus update utility but other than that I absolutely love it. It runs much cooler than I expected it to and I find that as long as I give it some space in the back it keeps the case cool to the touch.

How can I help my friend/crush who is extremely flirtatious (10 points)?

I think she just maybe likes the attention. If she is quite a young girl then this may be even more the case.

Ok to mix satin or eggshell paint with flat?

I'm pretty sure you cannot mix with gloss or high gloss.... but will they mix together for a smooth finish? thanks!

3 Tamil Brahmin and Congress woes!!!!!Is that a ao-incidence?

Agree with u..An important thing is they are honest and uncorrupt. I have always been happy and proud of being a Tamil brahmin.

Why did they bill my mom extra when she did nothing?

It's hard to explain but my mom got an extra bill on something for no reason (it wasn't cell phone bill btw). Anyways, she's so mad now and they even told her she called them after and said she would pay it which she actually never called them because she was on vacation and was too busy to use her phone. I was there with her and she even called them after the vacation and told them she never called them before that. Idk why bill companies make up lies. Idk if the economy is so bad that it's trying to scam people's money but anyways, she's starting to find out that they made a mistake but why do they even do this? Shouldn't they be more organized before they start billing the wrong people? If that was me on the phone with them instead of my mom I would either sue them or tell them to shut the hell up and go f*ck themselves ahahahaha!

GIRLS why she acting like this?

When you show a guy alot of signs you like him then do this what dies it mean? this girl I know likes me has done things which in the past other girls that have liked me have done and asked me out, she always blushes when we make eye contact, staring when im not looking, open body language, staring right into my eyes after we talk and smiling, when we stand together shes always looking diwn and smiling and always smiles as we talk .. then when i asked her out she then turns around and says " I think you should know i have a boyfriends, been together a while so PROBABLY not a good idea going out for a drink" is she telling the truth even though she has shown good signs and no negative body language .. Is it a test? what should I do? Or is it an outright slow let down .. It's been over a week since I've seen her after asking her so don't know what she's feeling, but now it's like she's avoiding me .. I genuinely like her and want to get to know her .. Shes not a flirtatious girl from what I know ..

HELP what type of abuse is this, if it is?

To better understand the dynamics at play in this relationship, it may be helpful to read about attachment theory (Bowlby). It sounds as if attachment dynamics are playing out in this relationship. Your boyfriend professes his love for you and it feels as though you are closer than before. You probably respond in kind and pull even closer to him. He then abruptly pulls away with no explanation, leaving you confused and sad and feeling very alone and panicked. He may require this time away from you because your former closeness felt too close and scary to him. After a while, he also begins to feel alone and starts to miss you and so he returns. These dynamics in themselves, though not the most healthy, are not abusive - neither of you have an understanding of what is playing out. Once you do, it is quite possible you would try to change them. However, some of the other tactics of his that you describe DO sound abusive, in a way that is meant for him to exert power and control in your relationship. You start to question if you are unworthy and unlovable in response, which means you will work even harder to try to please him and prove you are worthy and lovable. This gives him even more power and control - to treat you badly, to make you do things for him, etc. in order to prove how worthy and lovable you are. The solution, in addition to learning about attachment and its role in your relationship, might be to also learn mindfulness skills. When you start to panic and fear losing him, for example, you might learn to counter this with rational thinking such as "I will be okay even if he is not around." There are many good books about mindfulness and counseling or psychoeducational classes could also be a good resource.

Coca cola lottery a scam?

I got an email on June 3rd from cocacola-eboard@live.co.uk. It states that a lottery has been won through email screening and verification matching test conducted for online winners. There is an approved winning certificate number as well and transfer identification code. And it states that the winners were selected through a computer ballot system drawn from an exclusive list of 20110 email addresses to promote the coorporation between United Kingdom and countries worldwide. Citi bank is to handle the winning. Iv just summarised what the email said. And I should point out we ourselves didnt add our name to any lottery. Does this seem valid at all? And can someone guide me to the actual citibank website.

What types of substances/liquids would be able to penetrate an eggshell?

The shell is a special membrane higher vertebrates have called an amnion. It is waterproof, allowing things like reptiles and birds to breed on dry land. The shell of a brid's egg is composed of Calcium carbonate, which is what limestone, cement and sea shells are made from. It is a basic material and acids will dissolve it. The amnion is a semi-permiable membrane. This means it will allow some substances to diffuse through it and block others. The amnion is permiable to gasses like Oxygen and Carbon dioxide. There is a large space at the end of the egg which stores extra air. A bird's egg is designed to be very sturdy in terms of outside forces applied to it. However, it is very weak in terms of forces from the inside. This allows the egg to hatch easily despite the fact it resists crushing from the weight of the parent incubating it. Mammals have amnions as well, but only three species lay eggs. In the rest, the amnion is the birth sack which ruptures just prior to birth. This is the equivalent of an egg hatching.